Sunday, February 27, 2011

Cam's snowboarding accident

 Warning:  this post is graphic and shouldn't be viewed by those with a weak stomach.  Yesterday at about 1:45, the phone rang and the caller ID said Beaver Mountain.  That's never a good thing when you know your kids are skiing/snowboarding for the day.  Especially when the kid is Cam and you know his history for accidents and injuries.  Sure enough, the ski patrol girl told me that she had Cam there and that he had a gash on his forehead from hitting a tree branch. He had been going down spring trail (backside) and was going to go around a tree and didn't even see the branch that came out of nowhere. She said it went from his eyebrow to his hairline (not quite) and that it was the worst she's ever seen, and that if he had been going any faster, he would have been killed.  That got my heart pumping.  She said they'd called for an ambulance because of it being a head wound and she thought he could possibly go into shock.  So, after trying to stay calm for 40 minutes, me, Mike, Jake, Jessica and Brad headed down to the emergency room (Jess and Brad happened to stop by just as we were leaving and wanted to join us).  Here he is being wheeled in from the ambulance.  They'd taken every precaution!


 I really wasn't prepared for what I saw when the gauze was removed.  I had never seen anything as deep or wide as his cut- clear to the bone, and so wide.  It is more upsetting to me to look at it now that it was then for some reason.  I guess I knew I couldn't be falling apart in front of Cam.  He was so brave through it all.  He's a tough guy- perhaps from past experience.  I couldn't believe it when he told me he hadn't even cried! At this point, Mike had to look away (weak stomach) and didn't even see how it looks in the next picture until he saw the picture later.

 He was seen very quickly by the ER doctor and we decided to call in a plastic surgeon for the most minimal scarring. We only had to wait about 30 minutes for Dr. Isom to arrive, then he spent the next hour and 15 minutes with Cam.  I liked him so much and thought he was a great doctor.  The thing that hurt Cam the most, besides the initial crash was getting the shots.  Fortunately he only felt the first 4 (of about 20).  I was so proud of how good he was. I wanted so badly to get up on the table and take his place.
 He spent a lot of time sterilizing the area and cleaning the wound out.  I mean a lot of time and very thorough. I was fascinated by it all and wanted to watch everything.  I kinda wanted to be his assistant!
The doctor took such great, gentle care with everything.  I had never witnessed anything like it.  But then I've never seen anyone getting stitches before.  When Cam had his stitches on his chin when he was 5 or 6, I was at girls camp and Mike had to be the one to take care of it. I don't think he's ever recovered (Mike that is. . .).  Yesterday, I convinced Mike to leave while we were waiting for Dr. Isom to come since he wouldn't be a lot of help since he couldn't bear to come near Cam when the wound was exposed.
 I warned of the graphic nature of this post, remember?
The doctor spent 45 minutes just on the stitches.  He ended up with a total of 33- 7 underneath, and 26 on top.

 Cam felt pretty good when we left the hospital (2 hours and 15 minutes after arriving), and requested  Wendy's for dinner.  But of course! I would have taken him to Hamilton's steak and seafood if he'd asked.  The next 2 1/2 hours was spent with almost constant visitors and phone calls. My friend Janae came with her son Parker who is one of Cam's best friends.  Parker brought a balloon bouquet and some candy.  Four other friends came to see him, and about that many of Jake's friends.  Freda came with a milkshake and subway gift card.  The Larsens and Camdyn next door came by.  Michelle, the ski patrol girl who had called me, called to see how he was and said she wanted to stop by with something for Cam.  They had cut down the branch that he'd hit, and she wanted to give it to him as a memento. She and her husband came by on their way home to Ogden.  I think seeing this branch brought home to me just how serious this whole thing was.  That is one sturdy piece of wood, and I can see how easily he could have been injured much worse.  The fact that his helmet and goggles weren't damaged at all is remarkable to me. It's also incredible that that much damage was done given that there's really no gap between his helmet and goggles.  It's a miracle and a blessing that his eye wasn't damaged.  I woke up this morning after 5 hours of sleep quite traumatized by it all- thinking about how much worse it could have been.  I'm so grateful that he is going to be OK, even though he'll have a scar the rest of his life. I'm so grateful for the unknown woman who got to him right after it happened and gave him her vest to stop the blood, then went for help.  I'm so thankful for all the people who took such good care of him, and for the many concerned family and friends.  Thanks so much for your love and support!

19 comments:

Carol said...

OH MY. Those pictures are not for the faint of heart. I felt bad for him already, but now I want to cry my eyes out! That whole story is amazing. Cam is one tough teenager!

Carol said...

And one more thing - that "branch" is the size of a tree trunk. Not what I had pictured in my mind!

Jenny said...

Yikes. That is no branch. Owen crashed and burned on Friday. He is my accident prone child. Please tell me there is only one in each family. Glad he's alright.

Claire said...

I couldn't look away! So horrible - poor Cam. Hope he gets feeling (and looking) better soon. Maybe he should grow Bieber hair to cover it up.

Dani Em said...

Oh my goodness!! I am the Cam of our family...no one else im my fam has even broken a bone and I have had just about everything! Cam is tough!! I hope he is feeling better!!

Jan said...

So grateful he's okay. Thank goodness for helmets and great doctors. Our prayers are with him (and you and Mike, too!) Sometimes it's traumatic to be a parent, isn't it?

Jessica said...

Ya those pictures are bad! I hadn't seen all of them. Makes me feel so bad for poor Cam!! And I agree with everyone, when you said a branch, I was thinking a branch, not that huge thing. How nice of that lady to come bring it by and check on Cam though!

Nan said...

I just heard about the accident this morning. I'll call you. Where was he on the mountain? I'm so glad he's going to be okay. A little scar won't ruin those good looks.

Annie said...

I hope his scar heals as nicely as yours did when you had that nose job...
You did a great job behind the camera. VERY interesting. I agree with others who said that was not a branch, but rather a huge limb. WOW. So glad it had a good ending.

Stacey said...

I can't believe it! What a blessing to have it not be any worse. Loved the pictures and the play by play. I know what you mean about wanting to take away your childs pain! It's so hard to feel helpless as they are going through a tough time. Battle Scar story for the rest of his life! Good job Cam!!!!

mary erickson said...

Im sick. What a cut. Poor Cam. Give him a hug for me. I, like everyone else thought a small branch,not a limb big enough to be a tree. He is lucky it wasnt worse.

Jord said...

What a poor boy! The skin flap is definitely the worst picture and I'm proud of you for stomaching the shots. I hope he recovers soon and enjoys his Potter like scar.

Kylee said...

You can see his skull!! That is just crazy. Yes, I love how you were able to snap so many pictures and be there during the whole procedure. Cam is brave. It's probably good that he's the accident prone one... could you imagine if it was me??? (PS: I'm sending him some get-well candy in the mail today) Also, I'm sort of jealous of the harry potter scar.

Vonnie said...

My oh my. All the cousins will have to get together and compare war stories of broken bones, scars and internal injuries. And they call this a sport? Get well soon Cam.

Lindsey said...

"UH OH mama, uh-oh! Cham, Cham, uhoh." That was what Lydia keeps saying. What a trooper Cam is. I love that he didn't cry, I also love that he thinks it's kind of cool. A girl would be devestated, and rightly so, but for a boy, it's a glory wound. :)

Sophia said...

Oh my heck, Lee! I cried and gagged my way through this entire post. What a brave Mom you are! I'm afraid that I'd have been in a bed next to him from passing out and hitting my head on something when I saw it. I told Carol, "That's no branch, that's a trunk!" What a blessing that Cam had to great care that he did. And yes, he deserved Wendy's or anything else he desired after an experience like that. Eewww!

tutus n bowties said...

SAD!! Poor guy. I'm so happy that he is alright. He was defiantly being looked over.

Anonymous said...

Poor Cam! I can't look at those anymore

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